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Guest post by Jason GrossDuring the holiday season, we try to think that we're good people by donating and helping others as we otherwise gorge for presents in the name of Christ. If you really want to build up karma points though, why not go whole hog and put on a show to help out your favorite charity? And while you're at it, get a lobotomy too- it'll be less painful and you'll feel good too. Still, if you're still an incorrigible do-gooder and a masochist to boot, a benefit show is right up your alley.I learned it all the hard way and at the very least, maybe I can be a cautionary example. During the previous US presidential campaign, if you want to remember all the fun, Planned Parenthood was a popular scapegoat as a supposedly evil organization that had to be defunded for the good for the country, or so we were told again and again. Like most bleeding hearts, I was upset to see these attacks and vowed to donate to boost PP. But when the attacks against them wouldn't stop, I wanted to do more. For whatever reason, as a lapsed Jew, I had some kind of affection for Christmas music (maybe because the Hanukah music pickings were slim). For a while, I had the crazy idea of putting together a Christmas music album but not the sanguine crap that you listen to millions of times in stores that test your gag reflex.(I should pause for a sec to say that I ain't no musician myself. I'm a music writer and music editor who's had a lot of interactions with all sorts of musicians, labels, PR people, etc.. so I thought I'd reach out to some of them to see if they'd be interested.) The idea was to have a Christmas album of traditional songs done in unconventional ways that people might actually listen to and enjoy without getting sick, all benefiting Planned Parenthood. To go with that, I wanted to also put together a holiday concert to promote the record and get even more dough for PP.The next 6-7 months of my life were a blur and a nightmare and you don't want to know all the details (I'll save it for a shrink someday). Suffice it to say, the album idea didn't pan out when we found out that there were too many legal hoops to jump through but I stuck with the concert idea instead. I can boil down some hard-learned lessons from the experience that might be helpful to my fellow well-meaning kooks who want to do this too.1) YOUR LIFE AS A JUGGLER AND FIREMANIf you signed on to be the ring-master, you have to get the circus in order. That means contacting people, reaching out to people, problem solving, coordinating, getting everyone on the same page and pleading as well as all the not-so-glamorous stuff like wiping butts and burping the kids when needs be. I was lucky that with the final group of people I wound up working with, they were an extremely kind and understanding and helpful bunch, as you'd hope and wish, including Cindy Wilson of the B-52's, Kaki King and Amy Rigby. But getting to that point ain't easy, so stock up on the aspirin along the way (a little wine helped too).2) BE UNDERSTANDING ABOUT ARTISTS AND DON'T TAKE SH** PERSONALLYI started out with a list of about 60 artists who I contacted, who I hoped would be down with the cause. As it turns out, about half replied and then half of that group were actually interested in participating. From that fraction, many had to drop out because of touring, recording, other commitments. To be honest, I was amazed at some of the artists who said no or didn't responding, thinking 'this is right up their alley!' but it just wasn't gonna happen. For the acts who wanted to but couldn't participate because of other stuff they were doing, I was disappointed again but I thought 'they might be able to do another benefit at some other point' so I had to be understanding and thankful that they did have interest, so I just said to them 'thanks anyway.' After all, I might lose my mind again and try to do another benefit show (God help me).3) EXPECT OTHER DISAPPOINTMENTS10 Tips For Benefit Concerts: You’re Nuts For Doing It, But Do It Anyway
With the holiday season in full swing, many are working to combat some of the Holiday's more consumerism leaning elements through their support of charities and benefits. Here Jason Gross. Continue reading [https://www.hypebot.com/hypebot/2017/12/10-tips-for-benefit-concerts-youre-nuts-for-doing-it-