After years of hard work, my band began to receive a small amount of acclaim and a modest regional following. After performing at CMJ, we signed a publishing deal and played hundreds of shows across the country over the next two years. We had some momentum, but we weren’t making any money. Leaving for a month-long tour with less than $20 in my bank account was a frequent occurrence during this time, but I was elated over our success, so I set my financial needs aside and pressed on.As the months rolled on, however, I began to resent my situation. By the time of our breakup, we’d been playing the same set of songs for two years, and we’d forgotten how to make new music. By opting to be on the road over staying home to create music, we painted ourselves into a corner by removing everything that made our band worth being in.Bands need to find the sweet spot between making time to tour and staying home to write music, maintain relationships, and make a living. Some musicians are lucky enough to be able to make their living by being on the road most of the year, but for the rest of us, touring means being away from a stable, consistent income.Success is going to be defined differently by each band, but it’s vital for bands to have conversations about what they want and what it takes to get there. Touring in itself isn’t necessarily destructive, but it does set the stage for a band’s problems that were there all along to become front and center.If you value your band and your place in it, start talking about what you need to be successful. Staying home and taking a break from playing might seem like a momentum killer, but it’s actually a move that might be just what your band needs.
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